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Biodanza – The pedagogy of recovery

Tuesday, August 30th, 2011

7 STEPS TO RECOVERY THROUGH BIODANZA

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1. Musical Power

Music has been used since the beginning of time to celebrate and to communicate.  Music facilitates emotional bonding and physical interaction connecting us at a deeper level than words.  Music is a powerful way to release us from stress and move us to experience ourselves in new and positive ways.

2. Dance Power

The movement of biodanza provides an outlet for inner feelings and self-expression often restricted by verbal or cognitive reasoning.  Biodanza seeks to integrate all the human senses through movement, sound, emotion, touch and freedom of expression without fear.  Biodanza overcomes the split between mind and body and brings together the human being in one integrated subject.  This integration brings deeper happiness and peace of mind.

3. The power of now

Biodanza brings the person into the present moment and induces a feeling of being alive making it easier for us to transcend the ego.  When experience life beyond the ego, we find it easier to let go, to express who we really are, to create and to live life out of our imaginations rather than from fear.

4. The power of touch

Biodanza explores our fear of touch.  Cognitive communication is not enough.  We have evolved to communicate through touch. No man/woman is an island.  We exist in relation to each other, in communities, in families and in groups.  The verbal connection is not enough.  Touch triggers the release of brain endorphins, more powerful than heroin.

5. The Power of transcendence

Biodanza gives us an experience of transcendence.  The power of transcendence or spiritual power allows us to experience a state of consciousness that implies the decrease of ego.

6. The power of awareness

Biodanza increases consciousness and opens us up to new levels of awareness.  In Biodanza we don’t use any drugs but prefer to activate the body’ natural neurotransmitter’s to increase a feeling of well-being and happiness.

7. The Power of the group

Biodanza brings people together through the experience of the group.  We start as individuals full of fear and anxiety and we finish a session of biodanza with feelings of connectedness and communion.  We overcome the isolation and loneliness that is at the heart of all human problems.

10 Psychological Techniques to Help You Get a New Job

Thursday, August 25th, 2011

Get hired using the fruits of psychological research on interview technique.

In the competitive marketplace it’s harder than ever to stand out from others at interview.

You will have followed all the usual advice: researched the organisation beforehand, dressed professionally, arrived early, avoided vomiting on the interviewer and all the rest. Now you’re starting to talk, how can you impress them?

Hiring decisions are made on more than just skills and experience. It’s also about gut feelings and instinctual reactions. All sorts of subtle psychological factors come into play; so here are ten techniques which can help you give the interviewer the feeling that you are the one.

1. Schmooze but don’t self-promote

Schmoozing is good. One study looked at 116 students just out of college trying to get their first job (Higgins & Judge, 2004). The students who did best at interview were the most ingratiating: they praised the organisation, complimented the interviewer, showed enthusiasm, discussed common interests, smiled and maintained eye contact.

In contrast blatant self-promotion was surprisingly ineffective. It made little difference going on about skills, abilities and the positive events they’d been responsible for. It also didn’t help much taking charge of the interview or having impressive university scores.

So, although employers often say that work experience and qualifications are the most important factors in choosing the right person for the job, this study begs to differ. What most predicted whether they were considered a fit for the company was their ability to schmooze. It’s influence tactics that win the day (find out more in my series on the psychology of persuasion).

2. In control

Interviewers often ask questions about how you dealt with difficult situations in the past. You’ve probably prepared an answer, but does it display the qualities the interviewer is looking for?

To answer impressively research suggests you should emphasise how you controlled these difficult situations, rather than letting them control you (Silvester et al., 2003). Employers want to see you are taking the initiative yourself.

3. Talk to yourself

Most of us talk to ourselves from time-to-time to aid performance in many areas of our lives. It’s often said that talking to yourself is a sign of madness or certainly that you’ve been reading too many dodgy self-help books.

Well, it may be a bit cheesy, but in the context of job interviews—and when it’s called ‘verbal self-guidance’—it does seem to work (Latham & Budworth, 2006). You can say things to yourself like “I can enter the room in a confident manner,” and “I can smile and firmly shake the interviewer’s hand.” And you can implement other points mentioned here or elsewhere in the same way.

Just don’t talk to yourself out loud and in front of the interviewer…

4. Mental imagery

If top athletes can successfully use mental imagery to improve their performance, then why not job interviewees?

In one study half the participants were instructed to visualise themselves feeling confident and relaxed at an upcoming job interview (Knudstrup, Segrest, & Hurley, 2003). Then they imagined the interview went well and they were offered the job.

Those who used mental imagery performed better at a simulated job interview than those who didn’t. The mental imagery group also experienced less stress.

5. Cut out the fake smile

All the usual positive body language can help make a good impression: smiling, eye contact, forward lean and body orientation. All of these nonverbal behaviours have been shown to positively affect interviewer ratings (Levine and Feldman, 2002).

That said, try to avoid too much fake smiling. False smiling during an interview results in less favourable evaluations than does genuine smiling (Woodzicka, 2008). The same may well be true for all body language that might appear too fake.

6. The famous handshake

While we’re talking about body language, we might as well mention the handshake. It’s difficult to believe a handshake makes that much of a difference, but the research begs to differ.

Stewart et al. (2008) found that a good quality handshake did affect hiring recommendations. In this study the importance of a firm shake was greater for women.

7. Be defensive (if required)

Often interview advice is to avoid being defensive. People say you shouldn’t make excuses for holes in your experience or apologise for your shortcomings. This isn’t always true.

In fact some research suggests you shouldn’t worry about being defensive if the situation calls for it. When problems emerged in a simulated job interview, applicants who made excuses, expressed remorse and promised it wouldn’t happen again, were rated higher than those who avoided being defensive (Tsai et al., 2010).

8. Be upfront about weaknesses

Similarly, we’ve all got weak spots in our CVs, but is it best to try and cover them up or to be upfront and honest?

Given that liking is the most important factor in job interviews, the problem becomes how to reveal those weak spots without damaging the interviewer’s liking for us.

Jones and Gordon (1972) tested whether damaging revelations are best made at the start or end of an interaction. They found that when someone was upfront about weaknesses, those listening liked him more than if he concealed it until the end.

It seems that we find honesty refreshing so interviewees should be upfront about their weakness.

Exactly the reverse is true for strengths. Coming out with your biggest achievements upfront is boastful; these make a better impression if left to the end, as though they had to be dragged out of you. There may also be a memory effect at work here. When you leave the interview on a high, that is the impression that the interviewers carry of you into their deliberations.

9. Try to, like, cut out the, err, you know, like…all the fillers

I’m talking to, like, you young people! Yes, you know, like, who you are, don’t you? Or, like, maybe you don’t? Whatever.

FYI: one study has found that interviewees who overuse the word like, and put in, like, too many, errr, fillers, were found less professional and were less likely to be hired (Russell et al., 2008).

10. Be unique

You’ve learnt the same old responses to the same old interview questions. But is this wise if you want to stand out from the crowd?

One recent study has found that interviewees who answer standard questions in novel ways are at an advantage (Roulin et al., 2011). Across different job types, ages and levels of education, they found that interviewer’s ratings were higher for those who gave novel answers.

This may be because novel answers are easier to recall and being memorable is a good thing—as long as it’s for the right reasons.

Get some coaching

If you’re still not getting the nod at interview, then think about interview coaching.

Coaching can encourage you to exhibit the right body language, ingratiate yourself with the interviewer and better communicate your skills and experience. Research suggests coaching can help people improve their interview performance (Maurer et al., 2008). And in this economy you need every advantage.

The power of juicing

Wednesday, August 17th, 2011

The Power of Juicing by Tatia Nelson M.H., Iridologist – Utah

Celery juice or pain killers?  If asked this question today, Al Godsey would say, “I’ll take the celery juice any day!”  For a man who was once crippled with severe and painful arthritis, his story is one we can all learn from. The year was 1959 aboard the USS Ticonderoga, Al was a Navy Structural Mechanic who could hardly walk after 13 months on the ship, due to pain and deformities in his feet.  He was moved to the Oakland Navel Hospital in California for medical care where he was diagnosed with a debilitating case of arthritis.  In just over a year of service,  his athletic running feet had developed heel spurs, an extreme high instep and “hammer toes”.  The bone spurs felt like knives cutting into the flesh of his heels causing bad enough pain that he was confined to bed rest for three weeks.

One day, while gazing out the hospital window, he felt a strong impression that changing his diet would heal him.  When he asked his doctor about nutrition, the young lieutenant, fresh out of medical school, quickly rejected the idea that a diet change could help.  Surgery was advised, but other patients who opted for surgeries said their condition never improved and their doctors “just kept cutting” with no results.  Opting out of surgery, he took a prescription for pain of 5 aspirin, 4 times daily.  With pain numbed, he moved to a wheel chair, then crutches, and finally used only a cane, but his condition never got better, just manageable with pain killers.  After a couple of months in the hospital, his time of service was up, so he went home, still walking with a cane.

At home, Al took a 180 degree turn with his diet and his healing process finally began.  He ditched the aspirin and turned to whole foods.  He switched to whole grains and cut out white sugar, white flour, and other processed foods.  He ate at least three pounds of green and yellow fruits and vegetables daily.  For protein he enjoyed nuts and seeds and if he ate meat, it was very sparing.  No pork was consumed and meat choices were very lean, fish being a favorite.  For probiotics, he consumed fresh, homemade yoghurt or bought it with live cultures at the health food store. He read books by alternative doctors to find ways to improve his health.  Many wrote about juicing live foods for health.  So, he got a juicer and began juicing daily.  His favorite juice combinations included: Carrot, celery & apple, apple & parsley, apple & beet, and other mixtures including lots of alfalfa sprouts, watercress, wheat grass, spinach, etc.  Al first experienced a dramatic change in his health after a juice fast consisting of a quart or more of juice a day for 6 weeks.  Celery juice offered the most pain relief, so most of his recipes consisted of 1/3 to 1/2 celery.

Within a couple more months, he stopped using a cane, and his bone spurs were gone.  He was once again running the full track of 2.7 miles around Green Lake near his home in Seattle, pain free! Al is my father, and now at the age of 73… he is still juicing!  He bottle fed me fresh juices and taught our large family to juice daily.  My dad is most grateful for celery juice, because after 52 years, the pain in his feet has never come back!

Tatia Nelson is a certified Iridologist and a Master Herbalist – graduate of The School of Natural Healing. Tatia currently consults in Utah, teaches in the community, and writes for local health food stores.


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Action Signals – Use Negative Emotions as a Call to Action

Sunday, August 7th, 2011

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” — Albert Einstein

You can use how you feel to make your life better.  While negative emotions may be painful, they may also be our best friend.   We can use them to change the quality of our life immediately.

I was listening to Tony Robbins talk about how we could master our emotions.   He said that the key to mastering emotions is to use them as a call to action.   Every emotion has a message for you.  Appreciate the message.  Negative emotions are a signal that change is needed.  You can either change your perception or change your approach.

Change Your Perception or Change Your Procedure
What if you knew that no matter what negative emotion you felt, in a moment or two you could  get out of that feeling?   According to Tony, you can.  At any moment when you feel any negative emotion, the first step is to identify the Action Signal.  The Action Signal is the message that the particular negative emotion means.   The next step, after you clarified the Action Signal, is to take action by either changing your perception or changing your procedure.  You change your perception by changing how you look at it or what you focus on.  You change your procedure by changing your approach or how you are responding in the situation.

10 Types of Emotions
According to Tony, here are the 10 broad categories of emotions to use for this exercise:

  1. Uncomfortable – Impatient, uneasy, distressed, mildly embarrassed.
  2. Fear – Concern, apprehension, scared, terrified.
  3. Hurt -  Sense of loss.
  4. Anger – mildly irritated, resentful, livid, rage.
  5. Frustration – held back or hindered in the pursuit of something.
  6. Disappointment – sad, defeated.
  7. Guilt – emotions or regret.
  8. Inadequacy – less than or unworthy.
  9. Overloaded – overwhelmed, hopeless, or depressed.
  10. Loneliness – apart or separate from.

This is the set of negative emotions that we’ll turn into Action Signals.  Instead of getting controlled by these emotions, we’ll use them as signals to take action.  That action is to either change our perception or change our behavior.

Action Signals
According to Tony, here are what the 10 Action Signals mean:

  1. Uncomfortable -  When you feel uncomfortable, this is a signal to change your state.  Clarify what you want, then take action in that direction.
  2. Fear – Fear is a signal to prepare ourselves or get prepared.  Get yourself prepared to deal with something that’s about to come.  If it’s beyond your control, then change your perception and let it go.
  3. Hurt -   Hurt is a signal that you have an expectation that’s not being met or you have a sense of loss.   Evaluate whether there really is a loss.   Next, change your perception or change your way of communicating your needs or change your behavior.
  4. Anger -  This is a signal that an important rule that you have in your life has been violated by somebody else or maybe even you.  Clarify your rules or adjust them.  Your rules might not match other people’s rules so if you don’t change them, you might be angry the rest of your life.
  5. Frustration -  The signal is you’re doing the same thing over again and expecting a different result.  You need to change your approach to achieving your goal.
  6. Disappointment – This is a signal that you need to realize that an expectation or an outcome you had won’t happen, and you need to change your expectation.  For example, maybe your timeframe was too short.
  7. Guilt – Guilt is a signal that you violated one of your own standards.  Don’t stay in guilt, but don’t deny it.  Make things right when you screw up. When you can’t change the past, change your present and future behaviors.  Recognize when you’re feeling guilty when you shouldn’t be, change your perception, and let it go.
  8. Inadequacy – This is a signal that you need to do something to get better.  Get up and do something to get better or change your criteria.  Maybe your rules are too harsh.  You don’t have to be perfect – you simply need to start taking action, such as go practice, to improve at whatever it is.
  9. Overloaded –  This is a signal to reevaluate what is most important to you in this situation.  Distinguish between what is a necessity versus. what is a desire.  Prioritize your list.  Take the first one on your list and do something about it.  Do something to take control of events instead of let them control you.  The simplest way is to chunk it down, take one thing, and act on it.
  10. Loneliness -  The signal is we need a connection with people.  Clarify what kind of connection you need: basic friendship, somebody to laugh with, somebody to listen to you, etc.  Then change your approach or change your perception.

Meadowsweet herb made in Cabra & Finglas!

Tuesday, August 2nd, 2011

Its 3 years now since I started to study herbal medicine and each year I find a new herb growing locally in the Finglas Cabra area to focus on.  This year my interest is in meadowsweet.  Once you recognize it, you will notice it every where, but particularly along the canal or along the banks of the Tolko valley.  Its leaves look like nettle, but with out the sting.  It has a beautiful white flower, that looks like sheep’s wool floating on grass after the sheep have had to make a quick escape!

I have already made a meadowsweet tincture and soon I will have a meadowsweet medicated oil, ideal for anyone with pain associated with rheumatism.  I will probably add some bees wax and make an ointment as well.  Not bad for what most of us think are just weeds justifiably sprayed by the Dublin City Council’s highly paid contractors who were recently spotted in the Tolko valley spraying toxic poisons into our environment.  Killing the very plants we need to heal our grannies who god forbid will otherwise end up in hospitals where they will be exposed to more toxins, that is if they don’t end up dying in the hallways filled with trollies.  Its no joke, just ask Emer Ward our project worker who ended up there recently, and witnessed this horror first hand. So get to know this local herb, learn how to use it as a preventative medicine.

Tom O Brien PhD manager of Sankalpa and student of herbal medicine!

The following article was taken from Mountain Rose Herbs

Introduction

Sometimes referred to nature’s aspirin, meadowsweet is one of the most common herbs, growing wild throughout Europe and Asia, and naturalized to grow throughout North America’s Eastern coast. It was one of the three sacred herbs renowned by Druids, along with vervain and water-mint. Its historical medicinal uses are confirmed enough that it is licensed as a standard medicinal tea in Germany by the German E Commission, which wrote that it is used as a supportive ingredient for fever and common colds, and appears as an ingredient in herbal preparations for treating influenza, rheumatism and kidney and bladder complaints. Nicholas Culpepper wrote in 1652 that meadowsweet “helps in the speedy recovery from cholic disorders and removes the instability and constant change in the stomach.”

Constituents
salicin, polyphenolic tannins, especially rugosin-D; 0.5-1.0% flavonoids, quercetin and kaempferol derivatives; phenolic glycosides, mostly spiraein and monotropitin, the primeverosides of salicylaldehyde and methyl salicylate, also isosalicin, a glucoside of salicyl alcohol; volatile oil, mainly; mucilage; and ascorbic acid

Parts Used
Leaves and aerial parts for medicine, and usually the flowers for flavoring

Typical Preparations
In tea infusions, as a capsule or extract and sometimes included in food. The flowers are used as a natural sweetener for teas, foods and other beverages.

Summary
Meadowsweet has a long tradition of use in folk medicine as a treatment for coughs and colds. Its astringent and demulcent properties have been borne out by research, and the German government recognizes meadowsweet tea as a treatment for colds and coughs. Meadowsweet contains salicylic acid, the main constituent in aspirin, and has its analgesic and fever-reducing properties. Meadowsweet is also traditionally used to relieve pain associated with rheumatism, menstrual cramps, headache, arthritis and low grad fever. It also seems to be effective against bacteria that causes diarrhea and may inhibit blood clotting.

Precautions
Since meadowsweet contains small amounts of salicilate, it should not be used by people with a sensitivity to aspirin or similar products. For the same reason, it should not be used by children under the age of sixteen with high fevers, particularly if the cause may be viral, because of the rare but very real risk of Reyes syndrome. It is not recommended for use by those taking blood thinning medications.